Thursday, January 30, 2014

Love Letters--from the past....

February is Valentines' month,
so the word "love" comes up
more often perhaps than on any other month....
The following are love letters--
but probably not what you are thinking of...







September, 1974

Dear Kara Kristin,

Your mommy and daddy are going through a very special period of their lives--watching their first little baby grow and change each day. Because you are not old enough to understand how precious you are to us, Mommy is writing this letter so that you can read it when you are older. Your cheeks are rosy pink and your bright blue eyes are a wonder . . .




Kara, at 6 - 8 months



October, 1978

Dear Rachel Kathleen,

Your first year has passed quickly. It seems impossible that in a year's time you could be walking all over, all the time, wanting to be independent, bringing books to us to read to you, enjoying big sister's antics . . . You have brought us a whole new world of joy and happiness and are your own little person . . .

Rachel -- just over 1 year old


March, 1980

Dear Jennifer Susanne,

A whole year of life with Jenny has passed at an incredible pace . . . You have eight teeth, say "bye-bye" and go after your snow-suit with zeal when the word "outside" is mentioned. You are a content baby who has filled our lives with happiness, fun and love. When Dad comes home you stretch out your arms and coax him to pick you up . . .



Jennifer--just over 1 year old







And, then, there were three.




October, 1984

Dear Isaac David,

Although you were named Isaac David after your dad and great grandfather, Mom refers to you as "man-child." You were bigger than the other babies in the hospital and more handsome. You don't cry easily, have big blue eyes, and pearly white teeth. I noticed the other day, however, that one of those little baby teeth has a chip. When it happened, I do not know . . .


Isaac--just over 1 year old

I wrote letters to our children as they were growing up--one a year as near to their birthdays as I could get. What they liked to eat, who their friends were, favorite classes in school, special occasions were included in a yearly letter, carefully folded, and inserted into an envelope with their name and date on the front.




In spite of the smiles on their faces, our children were not always happy children. Their mother was not always happy with them or for them.



But they were loved unconditionally,
and we thanked God each day
for the gift of each child.


Living is not easy.
Knowing that you are
loved makes it easier.










Over twenty years later, I tied ribbons around four letter packets--one packet for each child. Each packet contained eighteen "birthday" letters with stories from the past. They were delivered with the hope that childhood memories would come to life and that each child would remember anew how precious they were and are.



There was yet another letter in the packet--making it nineteen, instead of eighteen. A letter from Jesus. I discovered it in World Literature Crusade, typed it, and included in the letter packet for each child. It's a love letter as each of mine was.

It's a letter for you, too.


Dear Friend,

How are you? I just had to send you this letter to tell you how much I love and care about you. I saw you yesterday as you were walking with your friends. I waited all day long, hoping you would talk to Me, also. As evening drew near, I gave you a sunset to close your day and a cool breeze to rest you, and I waited . . .

I saw you fall asleep last night, and I longed to touch your brow, so I spilled moonlight upon your pillow and face. Again, I waited, wanting to rush down so we could talk. I have so many gifts for you.

You awakened late and rushed off for the day. You looked so sad, so alone. It makes my heart ache because I understand. I try to tell you in the quiet green grass; I whisper it in the leaves and trees, breathe it in the colors of the flowers. I shout it to you in the mountain streams, and give the birds love songs to sing. I clothe you with sunshine and perfume the air. My love for you is deeper than oceans and bigger than the biggest want or need you have.

We will spend eternity together in heaven. I know how hard it is on this earth. I really know because I was there, and I want to help you. My Father wants to help you, too. He's that way, you know. Just call Me, ask Me, talk to Me; it is your decision. I have chosen you, and because of this, I will wait. . . Because I love you.

Jesus




If you want to read more
about God's love for you,
read scripture.
DAILY.
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Psalm 119:105




Psalm 19: 7 reads "The teaching of the Lord is perfect and revives the soul.. . "



If we neglect the Bible, we can not
expect to benefit from the wisdom
and direction that result from
knowing God's word.
Vonette Bright




Heavenly Father, You loved me before I was born; You sent your Son Jesus Christ to redeem me from my sins. You have given me the gift of eternal life. I praise you for the gift of life. May I be worthy to serve you. May I reflect your love to others.
Amen

Thursday, January 23, 2014

The Other Side

My mother, Marjorie, passed away four years ago of a rare cancer.
She and Dad had been married for over 60 years.
Dad moved into assistive living and eventually into the nursing home.
Their wedding anniversary would have been January 13th.
I wrote this poem with thoughts of them.




Marjorie, my mother...
The Other Side

Studying the family portrait on your apartment wall
You eventually slip on your jacket
Shuffle to the checkout desk
Scrawl your name beside the time
And venture out into the sunshine.
Putzing off in your bright red scooter
We watch the birds scatter
And wild grasses bend with the wind
As I sail behind you.
At the cemetery you find my spot
Finger the still fresh flowers
And wipe your eyes with the red hanky from your back pocket.
I stay beside you as you hobble back to the scooter
And watch for traffic as you return to your new home,
Sit on the worn couch
Take a deep breath
and fall asleep.
I watch the rise and fall of your chest
and hold your hand.



Dad and Mom with their children at Dad's 90th birthday party.


 
 
Dad will be 99 in March.
Another story.....
 
 
 
 For if we live, we live to the Lord,
and if we die, we die to the Lord.
So then, whether we live
or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. 
      Romans 14:8


 


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Christmas Cards? What Do You Do With Them?


Merry Christmas from our House to Yours
Due to email, facebook,
 technology,
the Christmas card--
like so many things--
may become a thing
of the past.

However, we all get a few of them,
and I have wondered over the years
what to do with them.






Greetings!


Family pictures were taken,
envelopes carefully addressed
and then slipped into the mailbox
with me in mind.


Thinking of you on a white Christmas....



I used to quickly read each and
stash it in a Christmasy basket.
It was a nice look during the season.
When removing the holiday decorations,
I would re-read each, study the pictures...






Wishing you happiness ....
...and then tape them together in a bundle
to be pulled out the following year
as reminders as to whom to send cards to.



Eventually, after several years,
they were lovingly tossed.







Today, while doing early morning devotions at the dining room table,
this year's stack of cards kept catching my eye.

Can't Wait To See You At Christmas!






 Finishing my devotions, a new idea occurred.

Why not keep the cards at bedside year around?

I could pull one from the top of the stack

and include this family in my nightly prayers.

It would then go to the bottom with a new card

on top to be prayed

for the following evening.




 


I understand that parts of my life
have not been easy.
I understand that this must
be true for most of us.
Life is a series of hills and valleys.







On the mountain top, everything seems clear and maybe even, do we dare to think--perfect?
Then, there are times when we feel like we're lost and alone--in a valley we cannot escape from, a cave with no exit, a cage we are trapped in.


A Christmas note.....of loss





With each card in hand,
I can pray
that you be
persistent in your faith,
that God will provide you strength
 and grace to go on, and
that you may evem experience
 joy in moments of frustration
and sorrow because you understand
the God of the universe
is there beside you--
and that is enough.




Christmas Joy!






Prayers for you
 and may your
CHRISTMAS JOYS
(and cards)
last all year long.
 
 
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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

The New Year and Resolutions



Early 20th Century New Year's Resolution Postcard
 

Happy New Year ....


It is 2014
and with “new years,”
some of us make resolutions...
or used to...

 
A recent study showed that 88% of those
who make New Year’s Resolutions fail.



****

A New Year’s Resolution is when someone makes a promise or sets a goal for herself. It usually involves an act of self-improvement.
 
Examples of New Year’s Resolutions might be:
*Lose weight, eat healthy/nutritious meals, exercise
*Think positively, laugh more
*Get a raise, get a better job
*Take a trip, take a class,

make new friends, spend more time with family...
 
 

 
 
You will note that each of these
involves making a CHANGE.
And, with these changes...
are we hoping to be more happy?

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The Serenity Prayer reads...

God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed. Courage to change the things which should be changed and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other. Living one day at a time, accepting hardship as a pathway to peace. Taking, as Jesus did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it. Trusting that You will make all things right. If I surrender to Your will, so that I may be reasonably happy in this life. And supremely happy with you forever in the next.

In reflecting upon my own past New Year’s Resolutions, I have noted that they were all about me. Did I think that having a more nutritional diet would make me happier? Did I really believe that finishing some of my projects would make me more content? Maybe, momentarily. I have discovered, however, that I am most happy when I am at peace, and that this is a spiritual gift from God—not anything I can attain on my own.

 

 
So this year—yes ,I will try to exercise more, spend more time with our grandchildren, etc. However, I have a new resolution that is less about me and more about others: I want to slow down, connect  with those I meet in passing and give a helping hand whenever I can—whether it be a listening ear, running an errand for another, or really listening to a child’s chatter without being in a hurry.

To do any of this effectively, I must invite Jesus to rule over my heart so that we can work together to do the work he would choose for me to do.
Did you read the last line
of the early 20th century post card
at the top of the blog?



Dear Lord, let me find contentment and balance. Let your priorities be my priorities. And when I have done my best, give me the wisdom to place my child-like faith and trust in you.
                                                                                                                     Amen

    Happy New Year ... Giving God the glory.