Identity influences every aspect of our character, but it has special relevance to grit. Often, the critical gritty-or-not decisions we make--to get up one more time; to stick it out through this miserable, exhausting summer; to run five miles with our teammates when on our own we might only run three--are a matter of identity more than anything else. Often our passion and perseverance do not spring from a cold, calculating analysis of the costs and benefits of alternatives. Rather, the source of our strength is the person we know ourselves to be.

When I think about my growing up years, my years in college, raising children, marriage, this all makes so much sense. I hope it does for you, too.
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